Feeling Overwhelmed? What I do when I'm feeling stressed

Photo by Lindsey Hinkley

Photo by Lindsey Hinkley

I don’t think I’m alone when I say that balancing life and business is overwhelming.  Part of owning your own business means there are constantly things adding up to get done, appointments to attend, laundry to get done, meals to be prepped, guides to be created, emails to be sent… I think you get my point- there’s a lot of things!

 

When I have a week that just feels so overwhelming I’ve found that sitting down for a few minutes and doing one, two, or all of these things can help! This, and a glass of wine! or two!  ;) 

1- Learn to say no.  Ugh. this is the hardest thing ever. But, I have learned the hard way with this, saying yes to everything will so quickly burn you out.  You’ll be shooting or doing things that you aren’t passionate about, and that is the quickest way to kill your creativity.  Get rid of the stuff you don’t want to do- it’s holding you back! 

2- This is one of my favorites.  Get yourself a good planner.  There are some AMAZING ones out there- I have a erincondren.com planner, yes, it’s pricey but oh my goodness, it’s SO WORTH IT.  I write down EVERYTHING in my planner- from my appointments to what the plan for dinner is that night.  

Photo from ErinCondren.Com

Photo from ErinCondren.Com

3- If you are seriously feeling like there is no time, this is the tip for you.  Print off a blank week page and start by writing out ALL of your current obligations.  I mean everything.  Write down appointments, preschool drop off time, weddings, ballet lessons, workouts. Every.single.thing. Don’t forget sleep, meals. I’m serious here.  If you’re OCD like me, you can highlight based on what the activity is. (don’t judge.) this is the best way to see exactly how much time you have to get things done that week.  It may only be 12 hours, but now you know that you have exactly 12 hours to get everything done that you need to! 

4- Next, I write out a list of all of the things I need to do.  I then pull out my highlighters again, and will highlight the things that are URGENT and must get done today, and then the ones that must get done this week.  If it’s a super busy week, there are going to be a lot of things that aren’t going to get done.  

5- If you can’t tell, I love lists and anything that helps me be organized.  I am so excited to share this free tool with you! It’s called TRELLO and it’s seriously amazing!! Trello is a program that allows you to create boards, lists, checklists, and best of all you can add your images to it to make it pretty!! 

What to do when feeling overwhelmed || Lynchburg Wedding Photographer || Ashley Eiban Photography || www.ashleyeiban.com

 

Ashley Eiban is a Wedding Photographer based in Central Virginia- serving Lynchburg, Charlottesville, Richmond, Roanoke, and surrounding areas.  We are currently booking weddings for 2016 and 2017.  Contact us today for additional information! 

Ashley Eiban

After working in real estate marketing for the past 6+ years, Ashley fell in love with real estate and became a realtor. She understands that buying or selling a home is a big life investment and can feel overwhelming, so she makes it her goal to focus on your needs and desires instead of simply what’s available.

Ashley, her husband, & their two kids have lived in the Lynchburg area for over 15 years and are proud to call this area their home. She started and ran a successful photography business in the Lynchburg area for the past 12 years. Ashley has direct experience marketing and selling with first time home buyers, new construction, buyers & sellers. Ashley earned a degree in business and marketing and her specialized background in photography and marketing makes her a valuable asset both as a listing agent and a buyer’s agent.

Dedication, communication and trust are the keys to being a successful real estate agent, and Ashley is committed to making sure your needs and goals are met for every aspect of the real estate experience. Having personally experienced the importance of the local community, school districts, and neighborhoods, she pairs that knowledge and understanding to help clients find the perfect home in the ideal location for their unique needs and goals.